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Letter № 20  ·  A father, to his son

No One Knows What They Are Doing

On turning six and the move to Charlotte — no one knows what they're doing

May 28, 2019
Date
228
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For luccapavese@gmail.com, Age 5
To
FamilyResilience

Dear Lucca,

You are turning six this week. Next week, you are finishing Kindergarten. Watching you grow up these past few years has been the greatest reward in my life. Keep that enthusiasm. Keep that curiosity. Keep that energy you bring to everything you do. And most importantly, keep that kindness and warmth in your heart that you so generously share with everyone around you.

I’m sitting on our new “porch deck” this morning reading and listening to the birds (apparently, the bull frogs stop their croaking around dawn). We moved into our new home in Charlotte this weekend. Leaving Hickory was bitter sweet. Leaving the house we brought you home from the hospital in was harder than I thought. Your Mom and I think this was the right move. We think you’ll get a better education here. We think you’ll be surrounded by a broader set of experiences here. And we hope you’ll be exposed to more diverse thinking and viewpoints. Not to mention, the pond! And all the wild-life that comes with it!

But truth is, we are all nervous about the move. And to some extent, we are just making it up as we go. We are doing our best but like everyone else in this world, we have our doubts and our worries. Said differently, “no one knows what they are doing.”

https://www.wsj.com/articles/graduates-are-you-ready-for-the-most-important-secret-in-the-whole-wide-world-11557480629

Love,

Dad

End of Letter 20